I just want someone to care about me
i need a hot boy who thinks they’re really ugly so they think im out of their league but actually they are way out of my league
true friendship is going from “look at these cute shoes” to “do you like being choked sexually” in under ten minutes
You see, procrastinators tend to be people who have, for whatever reason, developed to perceive an unusually strong association between their performance and their value as a person. This makes failure or criticism disproportionately painful, which leads naturally to hesitancy when it comes to the prospect of doing anything that reflects their ability — which is pretty much everything.
I’ve posted this before but I’m posting it again because it’s just so important and really gets at the heart of why so much advice about procrastination, much of it targeted at people who have ADHD but are just considered “lazy,” fails. Before you can tell someone to “just do it already,” you need to think about the reasons they’re NOT doing it, like all the meanings they’ve attached to vague terms like “success” and “failure.”
My friends and I are so messed up. It’s literally like the blind leading the blind.